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Saturday, January 16, 2010

happily ever after

I had a realization the other days...life isn't like one of those fairy tales you read.
People don't always end up with a happy ending. People don't always find their mister right...or if they do they don't always end up with them.

i've always lived in this kind of fantasy world...everytime i meet someone i think it might just work. that things are going to be perfect. life is gonna end with a happily ever after...with someone who loves you who happens to be sitting on a trust fund or some sort of noble title (lol...) but thats not reality.

people end up right where I am...halfway there or not even. some ppl just end up somewhere else and thats it.

story over....

no new game...no pass go and receive $200.

sometimes thats how the story goes

i always took that for granted

but this isn't the end of my story...this isn't even the middle yet.

and i know there is more to come for me.

Monday, January 4, 2010

stolen from Nicole

a friend of mine posted this on her facebook. I thought it was interesting so here it is:

posted by Nicole 1/2/10

It seems that an article was written to Sister 2 Sister magazine by a 20
year old
Caucasian woman,who requested a response from black men. I'm so glad she

got what she asked for (and more) !!!

Dear Jamie:
I'm sorry but I would like to challenge some of your Black male readers.

I am a White female who is engaged to a good looking,educated and loving
Black man. I just don't understand a lot of Black females
attitudes about our relationship.

My man decided he wanted me because the pickings amongst Black women
were slim to none.. As he said they were either too fat, too loud, too
mean, too argumentative, too needy, too materialistic or carrying too
much excess baggage.

Before I became engaged, whenever I went out I was constantly approached
by Black men, willing to wine and dine me and give me the world.. If
Black women are so up in arms about us being with their men, why don't
they look at themselves and make some changes.

I am tired of the dirty looks I get and snide remarks when we're out in
public. I would like to hear from some Black men about why we are so
appealing and coveted by them.

Bryant Gumbel left his wife of 26 years for one of us. Charles Barkley,
Scottie Pippen , the model Tyson Beckford , Montell Williams, Quincy
Jones, James Earl Jones, Harry Belafonte , Sydney Poitier, Kofi Anan,
Cuba Gooding Jr .., Don Cornelius , Berry Gordy , Billy Blanks , Larry
Fishburne, Wesley Snipes ...

I could go on and on. But, right now, I'm a little angry and that is why

I wrote this so hurriedly . Don't be mad with us White women because so
many of your men want us. Get your acts together and learn from us and
we may lead you to treat your men better. If I'm wrong, Black men, let
me know..

Disgusted White Girl, Somewhere in VA

RESPONSE ____________________________________

Dear Jamie:
I would like to respond to the letter written by A Disgusted White Girl.

Let me start by saying that I am a 28-year old black man. I graduated
from one of the most prestigious universities in Atlanta , Georgia with
Bachelor of Arts Degree in Business Management. I have a good job at a
major corporation and have recently purchased a house. So, I consider
myself to be among the ranks of successful Black men.

I will not use my precious time to slander white people. I just want to
set the record straight of why Black men date white women.. Back in the
day, one of the biggest reasons why black men dated white women was
because they were considered easy.

The black girls in my neighborhood were raised in the church. They were
very strict about when they lost their virginity and who they lost it
to. Because of our impatience to wait, brothers would look for someone
who would give it up easy without too much hassle. So, they turned to
the white girls.
Nowadays, in my opinion, a lot of brothers date white women because they

are docile and easy to control. A lot of Black men, because of
insecurities, fears, and overall weaknesses, have become intimidated by
the strength of our Black women. We are afraid that our woman will be
more successful than us, make more money than us, drive nicer cars and
own bigger houses. Because of this fear, many Black men look for a more
docile woman. Someone we can control.

I have talked to numerous Black men and they continuously comment on how

easy it is to control and walk over their white women. I just want to
set the record straight. I want A Disgusted White Girl to know that not
all successful Black men date white women.

Brothers like Ahmad Rashad , Denzel Washington , Michael Jordan, Morris
Chestnut , Will Smith, Blair Underwood, Kenneth 'Babyface' Edmonds ,
Samuel L. Jackson , and Chris Rock all married strong Black women. And,
flip the script, there are numerous white men, in and out of the spot
light, who openly or secretly desire black women over white women. Ted
Danson , Robert DeNiro, and David Bowie and Robin Thicke , to name a

I just don't want a disgusted white girl to be misinformed. Stop
that because you are 20 and white, you are some type of goddess.

Remember, when Black Egyptian Queens like Hatsepshut and Nitorcris were
ruling Dynasties and armies of men in Egypt , you were over in the caves

of Europe eating raw meat and beating each other over the head with
clubs. Read your history!

It was the Black woman that taught you how to cook and season your food.

It was the Black woman that taught you how to raise your children. It
was Black women who were breast feeding and raising your babies during

It is the Black woman that had to endure watching their fathers,
husbands, and children beaten, killed, and thrown in jail. Black women
were born with two strikes against them; being Black and being a woman.
And, through all this, Still They Rise!

It is because of the Black women's strength, elegance, power, love and
beauty that I could never date anyone except my Black Queen. It is not
just the outer beauty that captivates and draws me to them. It is not
the fact that they come in all shapes, sizes, colors and shades that I
love them.

Their inner beauty is what I find most appealing about Black women.
Their strong spirit, loving and nurturing souls, their integrity, their
ability to overcome great obstacles, their willingness to stand for what

they believe in, and their determination to succeed and reach their
highest potential while enduring great pain and suffering is why I have
fallen in love with black women.
I honestly believe that your anger is geared more toward jealousy and
envy more so than snotty looks. If this were not so, then why do you
continuously go to tanning salons to darken your skin? If you are so
proud to be white, then why don't you just be happy with your pale skin?

Why do you continue to inject your lips, hips, and breasts with
unnatural and dangerous substances so you can look fuller and more
voluptuous like Black women?
Goood Morning

I think that your anger is really a result of you wanting to have what
the black woman has.

BOTTOM LINE: If I were looking for a docile woman, someone I can walk
over and control, I would give you a call. But, unfortunately, I am
looking for a Virtuous Woman . Someone that can be a good wife and
mother to my children. Someone who can be my best friend and understands
my struggles. I am
looking for a soul mate. I am looking for a sister and; unfortunately,
you do not and CANNOT fit the bill.

No offense taken, none given.
Signed, Black Royalty

Friday, January 1, 2010

i think you should reevaluate your skinny jeans

!!!Happy New Year!!!

I rang in the new year with the ladies at Hogates, It was a nice night with its many ups and downs. VIP was amazing, main floor was wack and my feel feel like i was drop kicking bricks...or walking the streets of DC without shoes on - which at one point did happen.

all in all it was a good night. I dunno if Id mix those 3 girls again. Ashley was a little out of place and made it known. Isis and Cici were going with the flow as usual. the stories i could tell would take weeks...so i'll just wait and tell you about it later.

plans for tonight fell through. Trey Songz came to town and literally closed the club down. for 96 hours. I'm taking this as a sign- this is what? the 3rd time 4th time? that Drake has come to town to perform that I will not be seeing him. My sister finally told me it's time to just "let him go..."

so here I am letting him go.... :-(

so we'll see whats good for tomorrow night. its only friday so I'll just keep it moving...